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Dependency/Co-dependency
Letting Others Be Responsible For Themselves
What We Should Feel And Do When Others Have A Problem
Feeling Compelled To Help Others
Times When Your Help Is Rejected Or Not Effective
Letting Others Learn To Fill Their Own Needs
When Others Do Not Anticipate Our Needs
When Doing For Others Takes Us In The Wrong Direction
When Losing Track Of Our Wants And Needs
Trying To Please Others
Ignoring Injustices Done Against Us
Feeling Safest When Giving
Feeling Guilty When Someone Gives To You
Feeling Sad Because You Spend Your Whole Life Giving To Others And No One Gives To You
Finding You Are Attracted To People In Need
Finding Emotionally Needy People Are Attracted To You
Feeling Bored, Empty, And Worthless If You Don't Have A Crisis In Your Life
Abandoning Your Routine To Respond To Or Doing Something For Someone Else
Over-Committing Yourself
Feeling Harried And Pressured All The Time
Believing Deep Inside Other People Are Responsible For You
Blaming Others For The Spot You Are In
Believing Others Make You Feel The Way You Do
Believing Other People Are Making You Crazy
Feeling Angry, Victimized, Unappreciated, And Used
When People Become Impatient Or Angry With You Because Of Your Codependent Behaviors
Denying A Family Was Troubled, Repressed, Or Dysfunctional
Blaming Yourself For Everything
Being Occupied With Continually Finding Fault With Yourself For Everything
Getting Angry, Defensive, Self-righteous, And Indignant When Others Blame And Criticize
Rejecting Compliments Or Praise
Getting Depressed Because Of A Lack Of Compliments And Praise
Feeling Different Than The Rest Of The World
Thinking You Are Not Quite Good Enough
Feeling Guilty About Doing Fun Things For Yourself
Fearing Rejection
Being Afraid Of Making Mistakes, Part 1 Of 2
Being Afraid Of Making Mistakes, Part 2 Of 2
Taking Things Personally, The Wrong Way
Having Been A Victim Of Abuse, Neglect, Or Abandonment
Feeling Like You Are A Victim When You Are Not A Victim
Thinking Your Life Is Not Worth Living
Helping Other People Live Their Life Instead Of Fully Living Your Own
Getting False Feelings Of Self-worth From Helping Others
Getting Strong Feelings Of Failure When Other People Fail
Wishing Good Things Would Happen To You
Believing Good Things Will Never Happen
Believing You Do Not Deserve Good Things And Happiness
Merely Wishing Others Would Like You And Love You
Believing Other People Could Not Possibly Like You Or Love You
Trying To Prove You Are Good Enough For Other People
Pushing Thoughts And Feelings Out Of Awareness Because Of Fear And Guilt
Being Afraid To Be The Person God Wants You To Be
Appearing Rigid And Controlled
Feeling Terribly Anxious About Problems And People
Worrying About The Silliest Things
Thinking And Talking Too Much About Other People's Problems
Losing Sleep Over Other People's Behavior
Never Finding Answers
Feeling The Need To Continually Check Up On People
Only Trying To Catch People In Acts Of Misbehavior
Abandoning Your Routine Because You Are Overly Upset About Somebody Or Something
Focusing All Your Energy On Other People And Problems
Wondering Why You Never Have Any Energy Because Of Others
Wondering Why You Can't Get Things Done Because Of Others And Circumstances
Having Lived Through Uncontrollable Circumstances Causing You Sorrow And Disappointment
Being Afraid To Let Other People Be Who They Are And Allow Events To Happen Naturally
Not Dealing With The Fear Of Losing Control
Thinking You Know Better Than Anyone Else About How Things Should Turn Out And How People Should Behave
Trying To Control Events And People Through Helplessness, Guilt, Coercion, Threats, Advice-giving, Manipulation, Or Domination
Trying To Provoke Peoples Anger In Order To Control Them
Ignoring Problems Or Pretending Problems Do Not Exist
Pretending Circumstances Are Not As Bad As They Are
Telling Yourself Things Will Be Better Tomorrow
Staying Busy So You You Not Have To Think About Things
Getting Confused Too Often
Getting Depressed Or Sick
Going To Doctors To Get Tranquilizers
Becoming A Workaholic
Compulsively Spending Money
Overeating
Passively Watching Problems Get Worse
Willingly Believing Lies
Telling Yourself Lies
Wondering Why You Feel Like You Are Going Crazy
Not Feeling Happy, Peace, Or Content Within Yourself
Looking For Happiness Outside Yourself
Trying To Possess Persons Or Things To Make You Happy
Feeling Terribly Threatened By The Loss Of Persons Or Things You Think Make You Happy
Not Feeling Love And Approval From Your Parents
Not Loving Yourself
Believing Other People Can't Or Don't Love You
Doing Nearly Anything In Seeking Love And Approval
Seeking Love From People Incapable Of Loving Back
Believing Other People Are Never There For You
Equating Love With Pain

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